Thursday, December 30, 2010

All Rs are Down

First it was Reia, then the virus caught up to me.... which ultimately passed down to lit' R.
Poor baby, fell sick at the age of 2 mths old, So much said about breastfeeding babies have stronger immunities. Pui. Anyways, their immune system takes a while to develop, so it's pretty easy for them to pick up bugs. Oh, and my mom gonna nag that i always bring Reina out - be it Rain or shine.

Brought her to visit PD in Single-parent mode yesterday Waited for ard 2 hrs *roll eyes*
So what Dr diagnosed was
1) Sensitive nose, pretty blocked actually (genetic)
2) Eczema ard face and neck area (same as Reia)
3) Cough but lungs were cleared.

Ard 9pm, Reia vomitted on her bed whilst sleeping and i threw away the bedsheet.
Ard 12am, Reina also vomitted on me whilst burping and i threw away my clothes

What a way to end the Year 2010

/* Lit R's Medicines*/

/* Reia's Medicines*/

/* Hot mama's Medicines*/


xoxo
Hot mama

Sunday, December 19, 2010

Reia's mini Recital

Last Tues, the parents were invited to their music class (12 - 1pm) whereby the kids will performace individually. Luckily Im still on my Maternity leave, else would have missed it.

From my observation of Reia, she was kind of losing her concentration by then and her eyes were shooting blood red. She must be feeling tired and wanted very much to take her nap. Immediately i msg my hub - No More Late Night movies. She must be in bed by 1030 else she could not survive.

Their Music lesson are quite interesting. Kudos to sempi for that.
Im quite impressived.

Her lit' performance on the keyboard.


To 姨妈,
you can duet with her when U are back! I will make sure she will practise that song. haha

xoxo
Hot mama

Monday, December 6, 2010

Substandard Treatment

Let me tell U why the 2nd child is so 苦命

Substandard 1
Reia gets NEW clothes, NEW cot, NEW stroller, NEW sterilizer... Everything is NEW
I did not even buy anything for Reina before she was born.

 
Substandard 2
when i was preg with Reia, hub always accompanied me to the prenatal checkup - without fail.
With Reina, I went to the prenatal checkup alone from 16 weeks onwards. I used to pity those preggy who went for the checkup alone without their partner. Ironically, I'm one of those that ppl gave a pityful &/or Oh-so-poor-thing kind of stare wondering if im a single-parent. *duh*


Substandard 3
Reia has a pediatrician to manage her every stage of development - in good health or in illness
Reina only has a general practitioner. Did a comparison on the cost of the vaccination.
For PD, 6in1 cost $440
For GP, 6in1 cost only $268.
The con thing abt GP is that they dont really assess her growth. I will still bring her to see PD if she's not feeling well. Im not really that cheapo to put my girl at risk

Nevertheless, Her life will be overflowng with our Love -
That's Standard!

xoxo
Hot mama


Saturday, December 4, 2010

Lit' Cub First 6in1 Jab

We were a bit late in bringing Reina for her 1st jab - All thanks to her daddy's busy work schedule. Of course, I cld bring Reina to jab myself but I want to video her so no choice, got to fit into his timing.

/*lit' cub already 5.08kg at 7 weeks!! my milk sure is powerful!! */

/*The moment of pain*/

Doc advised us to feed her a dosage of paracetemol when we reached home.

During evening time, she began to feel feverish.

The amount of blood she'd lost :(

/*A recap of her jiejie's 1st 6in1 jab =) */

xoxo
hot mama

Saturday, November 27, 2010

Parents Meeting

Our alloted timing was given on Sat @ 930am.
And so, early in the morning, we deposited our 大小R to my mom's place and off we went to her school.
Before leaving, i asked Reia :"Do U want to come with us? Im not sure what Teacher Yvonne got to say to us and perhapes maybe you are not allow to study in that school since u choked the toilet bowl"
She shaked her head and gave us a terrfied look

So how did our lit' Miss Trouble fare for her N1?
What did the Teachers say about her?

From the English Teacher:-
"Reia can express herself very well. One of few that can speaks fairly good and she's very knowledgable"

"We did not punish her after she choked the toilet bowl, we made her stand there and watched how the auntie fixed and cleaned the toilet. We wanted her to know how tedious the process was"
Teacher commented that she's probably seeking for attention and it could be due to her lit' sista was born
Hub rebuked she's at her explorer stage!

"When queuing up to do activity, if her friend in front takes longer time to complete the task, she would come forward and "help" them.
Teacher's interpretation - Inpatient
Our interpretation - so helpful and so smart
Reia's interpretation - Dont waste my time!

"She wld just squeeze her clothings and blanket into her bag and off she went to play with her friends. Sometimes, she forgot to zip her bag, sometimes, her things still lying somewhere"
Teacher's interpretation - Untidy.
Our Interpretation - That's her character
Reia's intepretation - I just wanna play. 

During lesson, teacher will always put Reia in front of the class as her concentration span is so very the short!


 
From the Chinese Teacher -
"不愛讲华语,不会认一到五“
It's all hot mama's fault, period. Im gg to communicate with her in mandarin! 真是丢脸

The school prepared this in a PPT format which i dont know how to convert to mov.
And so, I copied out the photos and re-do this.

Enjoy her N1's journey!


Next year, she will promote to N2.
Which means...
(1) No more milk before her nap
(2) No more diaper during her nap
(3) Must be able to change her clothes herself (which she has no problem in that)

xoxo
Hot mama

Complaint

Teacher: Reia's mommy, today Reia went to the toilet and played with the toilet paper. She teared some toilet paper and threw it inside the toilet bowl and flushed it away. she kept doing it until the whole toilet bowl was clogged and proceed to do it in the boy's cubicle until we caught her in action.

Hot mama: ...............

Teacher: During lesson, she gets distracted easily and will always execuse herself to go to the toilet.

Hot mama: .......................


Tomorrow is meet the parents session. Whoo hoo..... more to come.
At N1, i already received complaints from the teachers.
真是伤脑筋啊

xoxo
hot mama

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

My Confinement Lady

我好幸运,我有我的妈咪帮我坐月子。
我爱吃什么,要做什么,想做什么,她都知道。
衣食住行她全包,不但得照顾大的,又得哄小的,还得抛弃她的老公(害他得自己洗底裤),和远离她熟悉的床。

朋友坐月子,总有很多的委屈,埋怨。但我坐月子却非常的开心又轻松。要做什么就做什么,想吃什么就吃什么。她也只是偶尔唠叨唠叨,也不会处处逼人,所以体力和精神很快的恢复过来。

为了报答她,我买了一架laptop给我妈咪to replace her 10 yrs old lappy.

 

谢谢您啦,我那只会付出不求回报的妈咪。



xoxo
Hot mama

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Ear Wax

Do Not Read this Post if You had just taken your Meal!

For the past 3 years, clearing of Reia's ear wax has never been part of her day to day regime.
Last week, by chance, I told Reia to lie down and let me check her ears.
 And was appalled !!!
Without any hestitation, I used a digger and attempted to dig it outm but my attempt failed miserably, it was way too hard....  What was that thing??!!!
So i had a second thought, is that her skin or have i reached the bottom of it?
Couldnt be, her earholes so shallow?? and it happened that both side looked the same.
I asked my al to check it out... he claimed that it was her skin and asked me not to touch it.

*after a few days*
Still feeling pretty peculiar abt it, insisted hub bring Reia to a GP for opinion.
True enough, it was EAR WAX and its superb hard kind of wax that need solution to dissolve and let it drop out of its own within a few days. If it doesnt, we need to go back to the GP.
No wonder Reia doenst reponse to us whenever we call out to her, we simply have to shout and catch her attention before she reply us with a "huh?"

Here's the Gold hub managed to dig from Reia's ears
*gosh*


xoxo
HOt mama

Thursday, November 18, 2010

ReiNa's Passport photo

This is the very first photo and the bestest taken amongst all

Hope it can pass thru since the background is not exactly white

Indeed, she has a funny face!
fwahahah.... still my cutie pie

xoxo
Hot mama

Monday, November 8, 2010

Happy Full Month, Reina!

Dear Reina,

Happy 1st Month!

May you grow up healthy and happy!

We can't wait to hold you soon!!!


Love you baby doll,

Uncle Tommie & Ros Yi


Reina's Full Month Party


Happy Full Month ReiNa T.
The celebration went well all thanks to Hot mama!
一手包办
Im just too efficient despite all the sleepless nights.. kakaka.


/*this time round, i ordered from LePrecious all due to the beautiful pinkie box. Who cares if the pastries are nice. I simply heart the packaging!!  Buffet ordered from Four Seasons */



Photos taken with all the loved ones who celebrated the new cutie on the block

Towards the end, realised i did not take any shots with my baby since Im the host, the milk machine and the photographer of the day. Quickly grab my sis and instructed her to take some shots of us. (U just have to fight for ur own rights :p )

Lastly, Our Family portrait.
It was taken after our last guest left.


xoxo
Hot mama

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Smile Reina Smile


xoxo
Hot mama

Friday, October 29, 2010

宁 is 3 Weeks Old

Gosh, Times flies..
Reina is turning one month soon, which mean i only left with 12 weeks :( sux

How has 宁- the lit' tigger grown so far..



Due to jaundice, Reina needs to stay one more night in hospital for the photo-therapy. Sad - she had to follow her big sis footsteps thou we've the same blood group!

Diff (1) - Jaundice
When Reia had to stay one more night in hospital, we went back hospital that evening after i was discharged to breastfeed her, cuddle her, spent as much time with her before we left.
When Reina had to stay one more night in hospital, we did not visit her at all. (too occupied with reia). I instructed the nurse to provide her FM as it wld bring down the jaundice. we left her there alone.

Mistake (1) - I did not bring my Pump.
On day 3 during my hospital stay, i cld feel my milk supply has kicked it (which was not expected) and Reina who was still a newborn then, demand wasnt that great to clear off the excess. Slowly slowy, my boobies became harder and harder. On day 4, i requested to loan the pump from hospital and to my horrid, it cost $35 for the whole day! being a cheapo mama, and since im gg to be discharged, refused to pay. My sis actually advised me to manual pump it out in the bathroom to release it, but being a cheapo mama, i refused to waste a single drop of my precious milk! A LC came and visited me, upon touching my boobies, she quickly brought 2 cool cabbage and stuff it inside my bra to ease my pain!
I tahan till i reached home!

Mistake (2) - Overconfidence
Immediately, i took out my pump and start pumping. With my past experiences, with these type of boobies (hard as a Rock), Im gg to produce tonns of litres of mik!! Boy... i was so darn wrong, my first pump produced like 20 ml each... and stopped. My boobs still feel like a ROCK no matter how i massaged, how i squeezed, how i power up the suction. Die, I've blocked ducts!!! which i never had it before with Reia. How to Clear blocked ducts???!!! I started to sms my friends, i used the cabbage method... I used the hot shower method, i used massage method.. i kept pumping hourly... my boobs still feel like a ROCK (even feel lumps at my armpits). Until didi called me after i sent her an SOS message. Over the phone, she taught me how to massage and suspected actually my nipples were blocked (and explained that ECP was jammed which caused KPE jammed to) and so i started to massage my nipple which were pretty sore by then due hourly pumping . Was so traumatised that i din even want to store my milk. I just leave it there on the table and carry on pumping, pumping and pumping. It did help after i massage and squeezed my nipples (OUCH), managed to relieve some milk. The sweetie didi even offered to come down and massage for me the next day! Since Im gg back to hospital the next day to bring Reina home, i wld go look for a LC to massage for me! Luckily, due to hub busy work schedule, he needed to pick us, drop us back home and rushed back to work, i have no time to consult a LC. So i crossed my fingers and hope that Reina cld release all my PAIN. Nothing beats her suck!
Amazing, She'd clear most of my blocked ducts. She's my BEST medicines!!!
Suck baby Suck!
/*manage to pump out 90ml each after x hours of hourly pump result*/


I've been feeding Reina upon demand. From the start, i wld note down how many mins from which side, note down the last feeding time until my data was all wiped out (after i sync my iphone). Fustrated, i decided not to carry on entering the time and stop looking at the time whilst feeding. What 15mins each.... forget it. Reina always fell asleep after feeding one side, i deduced one side supply was enough to satisfy her! haha

Angel baby???!!!!
After 3 weeks with her, i deduced she is not as angelic as her big sister.
Nevertheless, she will become one in time to come..
Oh and to commend Reia, She really hearts her lit' sister!!




And how is Hot mama doing?

Still pretty Hottie!!!
Always!!




xoxo
Hot mama

Saturday, October 23, 2010

Happy Birthday to Ros 姨妈 - Live Telecast

Reia's wishing Ros 姨妈a very happy birthday and sing her a birthday song LIVE!!
Of cos, she gets to eat her fav chocolate Cake :)


"Thou miles may lie between us, we're never far apart"
xoxo
Hot mama

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Lit' Mozart

Every Tues, her school will engage a music teacher (from semipi music school) to teach them Music appreciation at no extra cost. The music teacher feedback that she's interested in keyboard and we, parents should cultivate her interest.

 Im not too sure whether she's really "interested"  until she showed me her fingering skills.
Im so impressed!!


xoxo
Hot mama

Monday, October 11, 2010

Story of Reina's Birth

October 8th 2010 - The date of my schedule c-section. Since this baby is heavier and bigger than Reia, knowing my past delivery experience with Reia, Gynae has advised me to go for c-section. I've no objection to it since my pelvic bones are those non-stretchable type, Im all out to have it scheduled rather than trying on natural and gg thru all the pains and incurred large sum of $$$.
U know the date, and the counting down began...

Although I'm gg thru the 2nd Surgery, this time round, the fear of knowing what to expect that really got to me and loads of wild thoughts started running in my mind. What if something went wrong (it's still a major abdominal surgery!!), What if the baby not healthy... etc etc

At 10am, I went up to my Gyane's clinic to have a last check and strapped onto the CTG monitor.
All is well to be admitted. My Ops will be at 2pm, period!!!!



/* Admission - doing up the paperworks */ 
 
 

My 4D3N room - 617.


Thou hub will not be staying with me (he needs to acc Reia), i still want my single-bedded room. Wldnt want to be disturbed, cos im serious in my breastfeeding!! haha, this kind of $$$, cannot be saved! 

/*camwhoring with my big tum tum one last time*/
Which this will be my last pregnancy!!
I'm blessed with no stretch marks... and i din apply any creams...
dont envy.
 
 
 
 

At ard 1pm, i changed to my gown, cleared my bowel and off i went to be slaughtered.
The moment had finally come!!
/*taken away by the nurse*/


As i was wheeled down to the operating theater, i placed my hands on my tummy and did a lit' prayer. The fear was so overwhelming as i was pushed inside the theatre (without hub) to be prepped.

My Anaesthetist was Dr Chong, was told to curl up on the side whilst he poked the needle into my spine. Instantly, i started to feel numbness on my lower body... and nausea feelings started to kick in.




After 10mins or so, Reina's amazing cries could be heard. "Congratulations" my gynae peeked over and congratulated me.
She was wrapped and put onto my chest!




Welcome to the world - Reina T



xoxo
Hot mama

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Bloody Bloody Cut

Being helpful, she tried to throw away the metal cover which i'd just opened from a brand new FM tin.
She din know she had cut herself until i saw blood splattered on the floor.



The blood just kept gushing out once i released the pressure. Cant even put on the plaster as it wld get soaked with blood within secs.

Did she cry???
Hell no, Im the one that got freaked out and she can still hum song whilst Im trying to press on her wound (before she lost conscious)

Sometimes her toughness can be appalling.  

xoxo
Hot mama

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Hot Mama New gadget


Thus Far, this is the most expensive gadget i've invested!
Look out for more pro photos taken by HMM with the 2 babes!!


xoxo
Hot mama


Sunday, October 3, 2010

5 lit' Monkeys


This is what i've make out.
" 5 Lit' monkeys, jumping on the bed,
1 fall off and bonk his head.
Mummy calls the doctor and the doctor says
No More Monkeys jumping on the Bed"

~The End~

xoxo
Hot mama

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Sunday, September 26, 2010

R........ R..... R what??

Coming with a name starting with 'R' has become more challenging. The Good ones have already been taken =), the common ones are really widely used, the complicated ones are really tongue-twisting. Actually, we din really put our heart and time in finding the absolute one, finding the one that is nicer than Reia or even equivalent is kind of impossible haha..

The first name that came to me is Renee T - 陈芮宁
My friends loved it, whereas all my families / relatives disliked it.
Cousin Eve: "My class has X no. of children named Renee and all pretty naughty
Hub: i dont like the neh neh sound...

All in All, a lot of recommended names starting with R
Rechelle - 芮璇
Renette
Raegan
Reiko
etc
etc

In the end, hub came out with Reina T.
Cant really relate with the name Reina so i did a poll...
Renee vs Reina
Most of them chose Reina, and so, our 小胖妞will be called

Reina T -

"We begin with a 'R' and end with an 'A'"

xoxo
Hot mama

Thursday, September 23, 2010

Sunday, September 12, 2010

ReAnne is back in Town

Sisterly Love







xoxo
Hot mama

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Barney Space Adventures

Ever since Barney show started to advertise on TV, this lit' bugger had been pestering us to bring her to see Barney.

Reia: "When is Barney coming"
Hot mama: "September baby, now only August"
*another day passed*
Reia: "Why barney not here yet"
Hot mama: "They havent come to Singapore.
Reia: "Are they going to take aeroplane?"
and the whole conversation went on and on.

Finally, D-Day has come! Coutesy of her Gugu germaine who bought the most Expensive ticket for her as Birthday presents that she could come close and personal with Barney and his friends! And because we were at the Top-priorities seatings, the bugger and the man got to sit at the mosh pit.


/*In my heart, she's always 2 yrs old, thus we only bought 2 tickets.. hahah */


/*Eyeing on the barney torch, queuing up for the merchandise */




*After the show was over*

Reia: "Why the rocket didnt fly away?"
Dad: "Because the rocket needs to pump petrol"
Reia: "Oh i see."
*after a few secs*
Reia: "Why the rocket still here"
Dad: "Because the rocket needs to pump petrol"
Reia: "Oh ok"
*after a few secs*
Reia: "Why the rocket didnt fly away?"
*her dad getting irritated*
Dad: "how many times u need me to repeat that the rocket needs to pump petrol"
"So U tell me, why the rocket didnt fly away?
Reia: "because the rocket needs to pump petrol"

*------*

xoxo
Hot mama

Saturday, September 4, 2010

The Tutu Girl

One of the many oh-so-cute photos that Im gg to whip it out for her wedding collage!



xoxo
Hot mama

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Universal Studio Singapore

On her Birthday, we brought her to the Universal Studio. Thou it was raining in the beginning, our spirit was not dampen by that.


Lunch @ Mel's Drive in. Reia din really eat much as she cldnt wait to start her adventure rides!

Her first carousel ride @ Madagascar



She had been eyeing this dragon roller-coaster ride when we were having our lunchie. Cldt be happier that the minimum height required is 92cm and she passed the height!

Hub was so amused by her girl's expression, and this brave lit' girl wanted to ride again. So this time round, hub smuggled in the camera and video the whole journey.


Anyways, this is the most challenging ride for her. And she sat ard 4 - 5 times in total!! Im glad that she's not afraid of such adrenaline rides, Cant wait to sit with her next time cos I missed it so much *humph*

By the way, she cried when she watched the 4D Shrek show *faintz* So embarrassing!
Alrighty, at least there's still some gu-niang elements in her. hahaha

She loves to take photos with the characters too, and even want to re-queue just to shake hand with them. Her Fav character - SHREK!



She stayed physically & mentally strong thruout the whole day (she skipped her nap). Im sure she enjoyed the thrilling world thou she had been to the biggest Universal studio in LA! hahaha

Happy Birthday my sweet Baby!!


Saturday, August 28, 2010

Reia's 3rd Birthday Celebration in SparkleTots

And her birthday celebration continues....
On the 27th Aug Friday, we organized a small bday celebration in her school.

Ordered her birthday cake from 4Leaves - She chosed the design herself. Oh ya... Choo choo Train for the "Princess".
不好吃没关系,只要美!
As long as the kiddos went WOW........... then your goal has accomplished. =)

A Class photos with her classmates - 2 N1 classed combined actually. Normally, in the morning, they will be splitted. They will nap and continue their afternoon activities together.



/* everybody enjoying the cake and Yakult*/


I do away with the norm goodie bags and source for this lovely cutie Melody cookie for her classmates.

/*happily and proudly distributing the melody cookie to her friends*/

Hope U have a Great Time!!


xoxo
Hot mama

Friday, August 27, 2010

Reia's 3rd Birthday Celebration with the Tan's


Last Saturday, we had a birthday Celebration with the Tan's & Chow's families!

Her First Birthday Cake - coutesy of her moumou
As U may have already known, her gugu and her birthday fall on the same date, so Each has a doggy cake. No need to Fight!

/*I just asked Reia which birthday cake belongs to her - She told me white one is for gugu, brown one is for Reia T. Wonder how she derived that */

/*phototaking with each family and forgot to take one 全家福*/




Have a Blessed Birthday to the 2 Ladies!!
I Heart U Both!

xoxo
Hot mama