Friday, October 29, 2010

宁 is 3 Weeks Old

Gosh, Times flies..
Reina is turning one month soon, which mean i only left with 12 weeks :( sux

How has 宁- the lit' tigger grown so far..



Due to jaundice, Reina needs to stay one more night in hospital for the photo-therapy. Sad - she had to follow her big sis footsteps thou we've the same blood group!

Diff (1) - Jaundice
When Reia had to stay one more night in hospital, we went back hospital that evening after i was discharged to breastfeed her, cuddle her, spent as much time with her before we left.
When Reina had to stay one more night in hospital, we did not visit her at all. (too occupied with reia). I instructed the nurse to provide her FM as it wld bring down the jaundice. we left her there alone.

Mistake (1) - I did not bring my Pump.
On day 3 during my hospital stay, i cld feel my milk supply has kicked it (which was not expected) and Reina who was still a newborn then, demand wasnt that great to clear off the excess. Slowly slowy, my boobies became harder and harder. On day 4, i requested to loan the pump from hospital and to my horrid, it cost $35 for the whole day! being a cheapo mama, and since im gg to be discharged, refused to pay. My sis actually advised me to manual pump it out in the bathroom to release it, but being a cheapo mama, i refused to waste a single drop of my precious milk! A LC came and visited me, upon touching my boobies, she quickly brought 2 cool cabbage and stuff it inside my bra to ease my pain!
I tahan till i reached home!

Mistake (2) - Overconfidence
Immediately, i took out my pump and start pumping. With my past experiences, with these type of boobies (hard as a Rock), Im gg to produce tonns of litres of mik!! Boy... i was so darn wrong, my first pump produced like 20 ml each... and stopped. My boobs still feel like a ROCK no matter how i massaged, how i squeezed, how i power up the suction. Die, I've blocked ducts!!! which i never had it before with Reia. How to Clear blocked ducts???!!! I started to sms my friends, i used the cabbage method... I used the hot shower method, i used massage method.. i kept pumping hourly... my boobs still feel like a ROCK (even feel lumps at my armpits). Until didi called me after i sent her an SOS message. Over the phone, she taught me how to massage and suspected actually my nipples were blocked (and explained that ECP was jammed which caused KPE jammed to) and so i started to massage my nipple which were pretty sore by then due hourly pumping . Was so traumatised that i din even want to store my milk. I just leave it there on the table and carry on pumping, pumping and pumping. It did help after i massage and squeezed my nipples (OUCH), managed to relieve some milk. The sweetie didi even offered to come down and massage for me the next day! Since Im gg back to hospital the next day to bring Reina home, i wld go look for a LC to massage for me! Luckily, due to hub busy work schedule, he needed to pick us, drop us back home and rushed back to work, i have no time to consult a LC. So i crossed my fingers and hope that Reina cld release all my PAIN. Nothing beats her suck!
Amazing, She'd clear most of my blocked ducts. She's my BEST medicines!!!
Suck baby Suck!
/*manage to pump out 90ml each after x hours of hourly pump result*/


I've been feeding Reina upon demand. From the start, i wld note down how many mins from which side, note down the last feeding time until my data was all wiped out (after i sync my iphone). Fustrated, i decided not to carry on entering the time and stop looking at the time whilst feeding. What 15mins each.... forget it. Reina always fell asleep after feeding one side, i deduced one side supply was enough to satisfy her! haha

Angel baby???!!!!
After 3 weeks with her, i deduced she is not as angelic as her big sister.
Nevertheless, she will become one in time to come..
Oh and to commend Reia, She really hearts her lit' sister!!




And how is Hot mama doing?

Still pretty Hottie!!!
Always!!




xoxo
Hot mama

Saturday, October 23, 2010

Happy Birthday to Ros 姨妈 - Live Telecast

Reia's wishing Ros 姨妈a very happy birthday and sing her a birthday song LIVE!!
Of cos, she gets to eat her fav chocolate Cake :)


"Thou miles may lie between us, we're never far apart"
xoxo
Hot mama

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Lit' Mozart

Every Tues, her school will engage a music teacher (from semipi music school) to teach them Music appreciation at no extra cost. The music teacher feedback that she's interested in keyboard and we, parents should cultivate her interest.

 Im not too sure whether she's really "interested"  until she showed me her fingering skills.
Im so impressed!!


xoxo
Hot mama

Monday, October 11, 2010

Story of Reina's Birth

October 8th 2010 - The date of my schedule c-section. Since this baby is heavier and bigger than Reia, knowing my past delivery experience with Reia, Gynae has advised me to go for c-section. I've no objection to it since my pelvic bones are those non-stretchable type, Im all out to have it scheduled rather than trying on natural and gg thru all the pains and incurred large sum of $$$.
U know the date, and the counting down began...

Although I'm gg thru the 2nd Surgery, this time round, the fear of knowing what to expect that really got to me and loads of wild thoughts started running in my mind. What if something went wrong (it's still a major abdominal surgery!!), What if the baby not healthy... etc etc

At 10am, I went up to my Gyane's clinic to have a last check and strapped onto the CTG monitor.
All is well to be admitted. My Ops will be at 2pm, period!!!!



/* Admission - doing up the paperworks */ 
 
 

My 4D3N room - 617.


Thou hub will not be staying with me (he needs to acc Reia), i still want my single-bedded room. Wldnt want to be disturbed, cos im serious in my breastfeeding!! haha, this kind of $$$, cannot be saved! 

/*camwhoring with my big tum tum one last time*/
Which this will be my last pregnancy!!
I'm blessed with no stretch marks... and i din apply any creams...
dont envy.
 
 
 
 

At ard 1pm, i changed to my gown, cleared my bowel and off i went to be slaughtered.
The moment had finally come!!
/*taken away by the nurse*/


As i was wheeled down to the operating theater, i placed my hands on my tummy and did a lit' prayer. The fear was so overwhelming as i was pushed inside the theatre (without hub) to be prepped.

My Anaesthetist was Dr Chong, was told to curl up on the side whilst he poked the needle into my spine. Instantly, i started to feel numbness on my lower body... and nausea feelings started to kick in.




After 10mins or so, Reina's amazing cries could be heard. "Congratulations" my gynae peeked over and congratulated me.
She was wrapped and put onto my chest!




Welcome to the world - Reina T



xoxo
Hot mama

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Bloody Bloody Cut

Being helpful, she tried to throw away the metal cover which i'd just opened from a brand new FM tin.
She din know she had cut herself until i saw blood splattered on the floor.



The blood just kept gushing out once i released the pressure. Cant even put on the plaster as it wld get soaked with blood within secs.

Did she cry???
Hell no, Im the one that got freaked out and she can still hum song whilst Im trying to press on her wound (before she lost conscious)

Sometimes her toughness can be appalling.  

xoxo
Hot mama

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Hot Mama New gadget


Thus Far, this is the most expensive gadget i've invested!
Look out for more pro photos taken by HMM with the 2 babes!!


xoxo
Hot mama


Sunday, October 3, 2010

5 lit' Monkeys


This is what i've make out.
" 5 Lit' monkeys, jumping on the bed,
1 fall off and bonk his head.
Mummy calls the doctor and the doctor says
No More Monkeys jumping on the Bed"

~The End~

xoxo
Hot mama